Hey HN. Using a throwaway because I don't want to upset anybody.
I'm a developer (generalist), living in London, UK and working for a reasonably successful software company, in a reasonably successful position. I've been there for over 2yrs and it was my second job out of Uni, and where I've learned the majority of my skills. I'm 25, male.
For a few months now I've been considering quitting - I even tried once - because my heart isn't in it anymore. I'd planned to hand in my notice tomorrow. I've been fortunate and careful, and can afford to live off of savings for 2 or 3 months and still have left overs.
The trouble is, people are going to ask me, "So what's your plan next?" and the best answer I can think of is, "I'm not sure. I have a few ideas in the backlog."
I want to improve my skills, I want to work on some ideas I've had floating around, and I think if I'm "free" from employment I might be able to see a clearer path of what I want to do with my time. Ultimately, I'd like to be self-employed, but for now the most important thing to me is that I'm working on something where I'm learning a lot, being challenged, earning a modest salary and most of all, enjoying what I'm working on.
Given how indecisive I am about what I want to do, I'm afraid I'll just end up seeming like an entitled, waste-of-time person. That's not what I want.
I know there are many different paths to take in life, and I know I'm young so the world is my oyster. I'm kinda scared of what the future will hold if I do this, but I think if I stay at my job I'll be miserable.
I know there are folks out there who've been through similar things. I can't shake this feeling, it's been going on for months. Any advice?
The difference between a good job and a bad job is night and day. It's quite possible you can find somewhere that's very enjoyable. At the very least you can find something better.