Facebook is merely a website for messaging and sharing photos. It is because of YOUR friends that you get the experience you do. So if you are having a poor experience then find better friends. Or remove them from your feed. Or setup groups so you can filter content better.
But honestly the problem quite clearly is you. The immature use of the term 'gay' to be derogatory. The fact that you dismiss the uncool people in your group because of fear of what others will think. The anger you have towards people who are merely enjoying their possibly once in a life time trip. You sound like a terrible person in spite of Facebook not because of it.
It's easy to judge, isn't it? It takes some courage to be honest and introspective, regardless of how you may judge the poster.
What you say about this person says as much about you as it does about them.
Can you show me at what point there was some actual evaluation of why he was doing the things he was ? Because sorry but I don't see anything courageous or introspective there.
I just see a blind rant by somebody who clearly cares way too much about what his friends think.
Admitting things that make it obvious that you care too much what your friends think is courageous and introspective. He opened himself up to the inevitable ridicule of people like you (courage) and openly described things about himself that are widely viewed negatively by society (introspection).
He sounds young, and perhaps was a bit rude. In fact his second to last point was a turn-off for me. But, he made some valid points. I don't believe being excessively judgemental helps much.
I did like your advice to find better friends, and lose the others.
I thought the list was intended as a joke, a sort of master list of things everyone complains about. It also seems like all of the gripes are basically "I want to do something and I don't want certain people to know about it." In other words, privacy. With Mark Zuckerberg running the company (with his public disdain for privacy), are any of these gripes surprising?
But honestly the problem quite clearly is you. The immature use of the term 'gay' to be derogatory. The fact that you dismiss the uncool people in your group because of fear of what others will think. The anger you have towards people who are merely enjoying their possibly once in a life time trip. You sound like a terrible person in spite of Facebook not because of it.