Oddly, what I was looking for in college (but never ended up finding) was a woman a few years older who could serve both as mentor and sex partner.
I ended up meeting some hot grad students and getting a bit of stimulation (intellectual and otherwise), but never quite found the right combination -- I wanted someone to whom I could utterly submit intellectually; someone who would teach me patiently and willingly everything she knew, and then, with our hearts and minds open, share a vigorous and uninhibited sexual romp.
Hmmm... You like the teachers, eh? Bow chikka wow wow.
But seriously I can relate to this in a way. Intellectual passion with a bit of animalistic release. We can't think /all the time/, right?
I dated a beautiful grad student in philosophy and I used to try and get her to help me with symbolic logic and talk about philosophy over a bottle of wine. She would entertain the idea for a little while, but when she wasn't studying she didn't want to talk shop. I can't say I blame her. The grass is always greener, as they say...
A friend of mine met a wonderful older woman mentor/lover as an undergrad. She's now a professor at another New England school. (That is, both mentor and classmate were female.)
I ended up meeting some hot grad students and getting a bit of stimulation (intellectual and otherwise), but never quite found the right combination -- I wanted someone to whom I could utterly submit intellectually; someone who would teach me patiently and willingly everything she knew, and then, with our hearts and minds open, share a vigorous and uninhibited sexual romp.