i interpret that question different; "you can be what you want" to me is like "you can choose what you want to be". and very much believe that is true. so i've chosen to be "happy", "engaging", "kicking ass", "rich". some of my friends dont get it they choose to be "wanting to be rich/happy/etc". the thing is since i decide to be happy, im happy, and will always (try to) find proof for that. so... "you can be what you want", is quite true to me...