The bully comes up and shoves a kid around, doing some minor injuries.
The bullied raises the matter to school authorities.
Their solution is "would you like to fight the bully some more?"
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At what point did the victim want to get involved in this? The victim didn't instigate violence, the victim didn't want to participate in violence, the victim wants the violence to stop and to feel safe at school.
And you propose to instead offer them "would you like to risk more bodily injury engaging in violence?"
The bully comes up and shoves a kid around, doing some minor injuries.
The bullied raises the matter to school authorities.
Their solution is "would you like to fight the bully some more?"
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At what point did the victim want to get involved in this? The victim didn't instigate violence, the victim didn't want to participate in violence, the victim wants the violence to stop and to feel safe at school.
And you propose to instead offer them "would you like to risk more bodily injury engaging in violence?"