I know of the techempower benchmarks. You'll notice that the go results that end up scoring highly are using "atreugo", a customized low allocation implementation. That's how it gets its speed. Java and C# on the other hand are using fully fledged framework implementations (e.g. Vertx or ASP.NET).
You end up with a highly customized implementation not suited for wide use to get the higher performance benefits (and it still doesn't beat java on benchmarks like single/multiple queries and JSON serialization).
All these benchmarks should be taken with a large grain of salt. The golang compiler doesn't even pass function variables in registers (they're all stack allocated as far as I know), let alone do any of the advanced inlining and optimizations the JVM does.
Now for some "popular" benchmarks:
https://www.techempower.com/benchmarks/
https://benchmarksgame-team.pages.debian.net/benchmarksgame/...
You see that Go is sometimes faster sometimes slower but the memory usage and latency is way bellow both of those languages.